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Overcome your inner self-critic and become more assertive with Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT)

A quick introduction to CFT therapy

CFT is a relatively new approach to psychotherapy already showing effective results in the treatment of mental health issues. With our help at Psymplicity, you will:

Gain an understanding how your past experiences influence your present attitude towards yourself and others

Receive a bespoke treatment plan for your unique situation and learn a compassionate way to tackle your issues

Enjoy a better relationship with yourself and others, overcoming your self-critical thoughts and unhelpful behaviours

What is compassion focused therapy?

CFT is a form of therapy established in the 21st century that focuses on compassion as a way to overcome self-criticism and self-destructive behaviours. Find out how CFT uses past experiences to understand your reactions to present situations.

What is CFT therapy like?

CFT uses exercises to shift your perspective and look at the world through a compassionate lens. Find out what kind of exercises you may be asked to do and how they can help.

What can CFT help me with?

We all have an inner voice telling us we’re not good enough or nice enough. But where does it come from? Learn how CFT can help you understand that and tackle different mental health issues.

Meet our Compassion Focused Therapists

Our CFT therapy experts have had years of experience treating patients and allowing them to discover better versions of themselves. Learn more about our dedicated therapists here.

08/08/2024
I had the best experience with My Doctor. She has been kind and professional in every aspect. She was able to understand my current situation very well and I found this appointment very useful. I was able to arrange an appointment so quickly. I would definitely recommend Psymplicity. Thank you so much once again. Really appreciate all the help and time .
07/08/2024
Fantastic service from start to finish
01/08/2024
The doctor was very kind and patient, I felt well taken care of.
01/08/2024
The Dr was really calm and attentive which put my son at ease, which created a sense of trust between them. The Dr explained things very clearly. Would highly recommend Psymplicity
27/07/2024
Very happy. The consultant was excellent.
26/07/2024
We had a good meeting with my Doctor who is always very helpful and understanding. Efficient service. Thank you again for all your help.
25/07/2024
My Doctor was very helpful and we felt all our questions were answered.
25/07/2024
My Doctor is an amazing doctor- I always feel so listened to and looked after by him. I also really value the service you offer at Psymplicity from the admin staff, billing process and the different length of appointments you offer.
22/07/2024
Nothing to say, all went as I'd hoped, My Doctor is great.
22/07/2024
Service has dramatically improved over the last couple of months.
18/07/2024
My doctor is amazing, he's change my life so much, he's a really good dr, and shows he cares so much better than the NHS and worth every penny! He's always been amazing.
16/07/2024
Again a fantastic service
11/07/2024
Excellent. Professional all of them
11/07/2024
Well, it's been an expensive experience, obviously - but has so far has been worth the money:)
12/07/2024
A methodical approach, understanding everything clearly and talking us through next steps. Admin was also really helpful in sorting out the appointment.
03/07/2024
Excellent quality service, outstanding patient care
11/07/2024
Very professional highly recommended. I felt at ease and relaxed and under no pressure.
18/06/2024
Very pleasant from start to finish. Can’t fault them at all.
20/06/2024
All round excellence especially from my Doctor
12/06/2024
As always, I am really pleased and impressed with my Doctors empathetic, understanding, sympathetic attitude and clinical expertise.
05/06/2024
I felt listened to and found my consultation / ADHD adult assessment really beneficial for my mental and physical health. I am going to put some of my Dr’s advice into practice.
05/06/2024
The Dr would like me to send her a written account of my experiences living with ADHD. I am pleased I have had the assessment and consultation as it has helped me to understand my neurodivergent brain and to lose some of the awful shame I felt about never being good / competent/ intelligent enough.
05/06/2024
I was very impressed with how I was professionally and non judgementally assessed. I felt valued and listened too.
20/06/2024
I cant put in to words how greatfull that I am from speaking withmy Doctor. She has been absolutley amazing with everything & I cant thank her enough even speaking with my sister & coach getting my background and knowing me in as little as 2 hours.
28/05/2024
I always find Psymplicity to consistently provide excellent, professional and prompt treatment and response to any queries.
28/05/2024
The entire team, from the admin and accounts staff to the wonderful doctors who always go above and beyond to ensure your concerns are met with compassion, understanding and empathy which goes a long way
28/05/2024
Thank you to all the brilliant team; I will continue to recommend Psymplicity to all family and friends who require medical care and have done so already, being a patient for 6 years myself.
28/05/2024
Very professional and quite life changing
27/05/2024
Very pleasant experience. Good communication and comprehensive information provided before and during appointment.
23/05/2024
Brilliant service. Quick to be seen. Thorough approach. Wonderful service by everyone involved throughout.
23/05/2024
My doctor was was brilliant!!!
24/05/2024
Really smooth process, easy to follow. Really great clinician, very understanding.
17/05/2024
Recently I decided as recommended by a friend to have a ADHD assessment. Much to my amazement I was diagnosed with ADHD. My whole life suddenly felt very normal for the first time in what felt like forever.
17/05/2024
I cannot thank Psymplicity enough. I was coming to the end of my tether. Psymplicity has helped me more than i thought possible. The knowledge alone has been a life changing experience for me. Hopefully can further my career without my ADHD holding me back.
19/05/2024
Very efficient and easy to book, super quick to get an appointment
17/05/2024
The psychiatrist I spoke to made me feel seen and heard for the first time in my life. I always felt like an oddball when explaining my symptoms to a g.p. Yet, today I was made to feel understood. I cannot thank him enough for his help today. To realise it wasn’t all because I was a bad kid, it was because I have autism and a.d.h.d. Has made me feel compassion towards myself instead of shame.
15/05/2024
The process was so straightforward and simple. I wish I had done this sooner. All the years of anxiety and feeling different, changing myself to fit with people. I could cry with relief. I've suspected for years but still doubted that an assessment/diagnosis would clarify things, more just say I needed to concentrate or pay attention. However, it explains everything and I feel freed and validated for the first time in my whole life.
15/05/2024
Very professional admin team that answered my numerous questions over the phone with understanding and patience. Would recommend to any individuals seeking psychiatric help.
14/05/2024
It was a review appointment with my Doctor following 6 months shared care. As always the appointment is informative and helpful. My Doctor has helped make a huge difference to my life. So glad I’ve had his continuous care over the last 18 months. It’s been worth the initial teething problems with Admin at the practice. Which also seems to have improved.
09/05/2024
From start to finish everyone has been so lovely and kind. Couldn’t ask for a better service
09/05/2024
Really easy to book and great communication leading up to the appointment and very friendly and professional Doctor, felt at ease very quickly and he was so kind and reassuring.
01/05/24
Very professional highly recommended. I felt at ease and relaxed and under no pressure.
01/05/24
Good service and helpful staff, thank you
01/05/24
Very happy. A business that recognises existing diagnosis rather than trying to screw as much money out of one as possible. Very pleased.
01/05/24
My doctor is a thorough and approachable practitioner - I feel utterly heard and have time to ask questions etc.
01/05/24
I had a very good all round experience, very professional.
01/05/24
Easy to get appointments with excellent professionals
01/05/24
My doctor was amazing to speak to, he very often explained how things may make me feel and the explanations were incredibly accurate. Many thanks to him
01/05/24
It was great
01/05/24
After 15 years of suffering and being misdiagnosed, finally had a psycatrist who listened to my needs and was able to offer me the best advice. I’m looking forward to being able to start my journey
01/05/24
Really thorough assessment with a very kind and understanding psychiatrist. Can’t fault the service so far.
01/05/24
Absolutely amazing
01/05/24
very happy & felt well listened to and was given plenty of time to talk
01/05/24
Very positive and great experience
01/05/24
Efficient supportive admin, excellent Doctor - wide ranging conversation and advice.
01/05/24
I had a great experience with my doctor, she was very considerate throughout and explained things clearly and concisely.
01/05/24
I had a great experience with my doctor, she was very considerate throughout and explained things clearly and concisely.
01/05/24
It was a very valuable experience
01/05/24
Very positive!
01/05/24
Would highly recommend
01/05/24
I was extremely delighted with the consultation and feel confident that I will be able to get the help I need to get back on my feet. Very pleasant and helpful doctor.
01/05/24
I've been using Psymplicity for over a year now. Treatment has made such a difference in my life and they are to thank for it!
01/05/24
I have been a patient at Psymplicity for over 3 years now and I have received nothing short of excellent service from all of the clinical, admin and staff in general.
01/05/24
The team always go out of their way to ensure I can see a psychiatrist when needed, the staff are responsive and the psychiatrist I see, has been extremely helpful in the management of my anxiety and ADHD symptoms, with an extensive amount of medical knowledge and experience.
01/05/24
Very good!
01/05/24
Felt respected and listened too - very grateful
01/05/24
I really wanted to get a straight answer and I finally have!
01/05/24
Really easy experience, my consultant made me feel at ease and I am just very happy to have answers finally. Would recommend
01/05/24
A private psychiatrist company that isn't trying to drag out ti e and milk you for as much money as possible. Really good and they recognise previous diagnosis, which many do not.
01/05/24
An absolute pleasure to deal with from beginning to end. Many thanks to everyone on the team.
01/05/24
Highly recommended. The appointment was well organised, with even a reminder email containing the meeting links on the day. The doctor was polite and considerate and really easy to speak with.
01/05/24
They really help people.
01/05/24
Great follow up contact rom admin and help and advice from my doctor
01/05/24
I contacted them about an adult ADHD assessment. NHS waiting times for adult ADHD in the UK are just unrealistic when you’re searching for clarity about yourself. I had the assessment within a few weeks. Great service.
01/05/24
Fantastic service, very professional and knowledgable. Would recommend this service to any ody
01/05/24
Had no problems with booking, the Dr I see was very nice,pleasant,helpful and honest. Just what you want and need. Could not fault at all. Highly recommended.
Adult ADHD Assessment
Highly recommend. Quick, efficient, empathetic and professional - thank you.
01/05/24
Very professional and useful advice.

What is compassion focused therapy?

Developed in the 21st Century by Professor Paul Gilbert, Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) is a relatively new approach that encourages patients to be compassionate towards themselves and others. CFT takes much of its beliefs from third-wave models of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, such as increasing awareness of one’s thoughts in a non-judgemental way.

Compassion therapy focuses on understanding reactionary behavioural patterns influenced by past experiences, which may negatively affect your current way of dealing with difficult situations.

For instance, you may have experienced an abusive relationship that left you with low self-esteem and trust issues. Through a compassionate frame, your therapist will help you explore these feelings and shift your perspective. You will be encouraged to think of other aspects of your life where you show confidence or have people that love and support you.

Compassionate, positive reinforcements will not only help you change the way you view yourself and your life. Through CFT you will also develop compassion and understanding towards others and become more aware of their struggles.

What can CFT help me with?

Compassion focused therapy at Psymplicity can help anyone who finds it difficult to show compassion in their lives, both in their relationship with themselves and others. However, studies have found it an effective therapy method also for:

Our CFT therapists can support your journey to self-acceptance and help you overcome submissive or aggressive behaviours as a consequence of mental health struggles. Compassion therapy can help you enhance motivation, give you the tool to confidently assert your needs, and improve your relationships.

What is CFT like?

Your first assessment with a CFT therapist will focus on understanding your situation. They will listen to your concerns and symptoms and likely ask you questions to guide your thoughts and reasoning. Whatever information you decide to share with your therapist, will help them establish a bespoke treatment plan.

As CFT predominantly focuses on compassion, your therapist will assist you in the development of compassionate motivation and distress tolerance. Through active exercises, both during the session and on your own, you will change your perspective towards life events. Some of the exercises we use at Psymplicity include practicing mindfulness, taking time to do enjoyable activities, or imagery exercises to stimulate the mind towards positive thoughts.

The techniques used during compassion therapy may be more difficult for people who struggle with keeping focus or establishing compassionate thoughts. Although CFT therapy can help you change that, it may also not be the best therapy method for you. This shouldn’t discourage you — our highly-trained therapists will be able to create a better treatment plan for your situation.

Meet our Compassion Focused Therapists

Our specialists are among the best in their field, having successfully treated mental health symptoms using CFT. We know that there is no one-size-fits-all approach and that to provide the transformation so many of our clients enjoy requires a bespoke, holistic plan — one we’re confident you won’t find anywhere else.

Discover the symptoms of conditions like anxiety, depression, eating disorders and more and how negative thoughts and patterns are formed, along with how CFT can help reduce and manage them in our blog.

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